Die Fähigkeit, um sich selbst zu trauern Wer hat ihn noch nicht geträumt, den Traum vom Fliegen Sterben. (...)
g a g a - 9. Juli 2009, 23:57
"A parent buries a child with a few friends and no one knows what to say. Children cremate parents in absentia. We behave this way not because we are without hearts but because we don't know how to enter the dark night and and we fear no return. We will ourselves not to feel death. Judaism acknowledges the horror of death, defines a way of honoring the dead, while it insists that we live. Mourning is mandated and limited. We must leave our homes after seven days, we must cease mourning after 30 days or a year. We are discouraged even from visiting the cemetery too often. The expression "orgy of grief" carries truth. There is a difference between reverence and worship of the dead, and we must honor the distinction.
We need more than rituals to face death. We need faith, faith in the ebb and flow of things, and faith that however we brought blessing to this life, that blessing lasts forever. The love of my grandmother for me has become my love for my grandchildren. Abraham Joshua Heschel wrote, "To have faith is not to capitulate but to rise to a higher place of thinking. To have faith is not to defy human reason but rather to share divine wisdom." At the end of his life Heschel accepted his death as a homecoming. He faced his death with song by feeling gratitude for his life. "I did not ask for success; I asked for wonder. And You gave it to me." May we live our lives so full of wonder that we face death as a fair price for the gift of life, and may we see all around us that death is the beginning of new life. We die so that others may live."
Malka Drucker
MEMORIAL [---]
g a g a - 9. Juli 2009, 22:27
They Told Him Don't You Ever Come Around Here Don't Wanna See Your Face, You Better Disappear. The Fire's In Their Eyes And Their Words Are Really Clear. So Beat It, Just Beat It. You Better Run, You Better Do What You Can. Don't Wanna See No Blood, Don't Be A Macho Man. You Wanna Be Tough, Better Do What You Can So Beat It, But You Wanna Be Bad. Just Beat It, Beat It, Beat It, Beat It. No One Wants To Be Defeated. Showin' How Funky Strong Is Your Fight. It Doesn't Matter Who's Wrong Or Right. Just Beat It, Beat It. Just Beat It, Beat It. Just Beat It, Beat It. Just Beat It, Beat It. And The Dream We Were Conceived In, Will Reveal. A Joyful Face And The World We Once Believed In, Will Shine Again In Grace. Then Why Do We Keep Strangling Life, Wound This Earth, Crucify Its Soul, Though It's Plain To See, This World Is Heavenly. Be God's Glow. We Could Fly So High. Let Our Spirits Never Die. In My Heart I Feel You Are All My Brothers. Create A World With No Fear. Together We'll Cry Happy Tears. See The Nations Turn Their Swords Into Plowshares. We Could Really Get There If You Cared Enough For The Living. Make A Little Space, To Make A Better Place. Heal The World. Make It A Better Place.
Michael Jackson 1958 - 2009
g a g a - 7. Juli 2009, 00:00